Tuesday, March 31, 2009
friends
what are true friends? to me a true friend is some one that will be there for you through thick or thin.some one you can trust no matter what and makes you happy when you are sad and has a shoulder to cry on. to me a good friend is some one you look up to or them to you. some one thaat helps you make the right decesions.
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Being a friend is a hard thing to do. To be a friend you have to first, stop loving yourself long enough to listen, learn and understand someone else.Then you have to find their shortcomings and accept them for who they are. Then you have to judge them like you would judge yourself, Only when they do something and you fall out with them,you know either it was in their character,of which you should have known. Or maybe you were to busy admiring yourself to know what kind of friend they were. I have friends you cant trust around your woman, They have a problem with women.I know that so I keep my woman away.thats a friend, understanding where someone falls short and not allowing it to come between you. I have a friend who steals,lol He cant help himself, so I keep my valuables away from him. i have a friend who dont pay his bills, so when I lone him money i make sure I dont need it back.lmbo Mind you, these guys have been my friends for 20 years and will take a bullet for me, but if I ask them to manage their shortcomings for me, im asking for a let down. Friends are to be there when you need them sometimes not to be called on more than the lord. If friends were perfect, what good would the lord be. So remember when your fighting and fussing with your friends, that you picked them, and either you are just a bad judge of character, you were not listening to them or, judging them like you judge yourself. You know your shortcomings and you've come to live with them cause you try to head them off at the pass...Do the same thing for your friends. We call it riding shotgun. This something I preach. By Clarence Oglesby
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